honestly every time this question is asked, typically a different answer is given LMAO so i don’t really know, especially cause i don’t really keep up with it honestly? but considering it is different from country to country and that minkey kiss was done in japan i would say that doesn’t really have a correlation to korea really? it is still possible minkey is a popular pairing in korea though! but yeah i’m not really sure honestly babe :)
that definitely makes sense and i agree with it. it has to be self orchestrated. but i will be honest, for me personally… i am not going scuba diving/on a cruise ever LMAO people often joke about throwing me in the ocean and i’ve heard people talk like that about other people’s fears and planning to help them get over them and that is very wrong.
i’ve never been properly diagnosed with anything anxiety related, but i don’t have a fear of anything on land that is wide open and i don’t have a fear of crowdedness! i believe that’s what agoraphobia is but i’m not quite positive on the definition so correct me if i’m wrong please :) but i do have a fear of not being able to escape situations in boats definitely. the vastness of the ocean is what terrifies me about it, but i don’t have that sort of feeling when it comes to open spaces/public spaces on land. when it comes to open public places and crowdedness i actually feel comforted by them. i like being at crowded malls and crowded areas like concerts - although that can get uncomfortable but that’s mostly because of pushing and shoving - even though i also often get tired out by them. actually i’m much more terrified of being alone, especially in rural areas.
yeah i definitely don’t agree with this method of getting people over things. in most cases it can just cause panic and serious stress, which is not a good thing at all. in some cases, yes some people can benefit from it, but i don’t think it’s a universal cure and in fact i think it’s very rare that it helps and works. people have often told me to do that when it comes to my intense phobia of the ocean/large bodies of water/boats and that would honestly be the worst thing for me. it’s really horrible and i think that people should really stop pushing people when it comes to these things. of course in some cases when it inhibits that person from actually functioning, therapy can be useful and is usually necessary, but not plunging a person into a situation that will cause them to have horrible panic and stress.
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